there is not any reason, why we need to play these mind games. becoming stuck in a situation where i need to call them out, or play along, is very high on the list of things i hope will never happen again.
but then of course i need to realize that just because the phrase is spoken, does not mean that is the answer that they are looking for. i say them too. and nothing irritates me more, than having someone think that i am asking them to play the game with me.
i do not like the idea of being bated. or being manipulated to give people what they need. we could override this whole thing, if we could just be honest with each other...i would love to help, but don't pretend that you are not looking for it.
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